English is relaxed about prepositions. You can say the pen I write with, the friend I went with or the reason I'm here for, leaving with or for dangling at the end. Standard French does not do this. The preposition has to travel to the front of the relative clause, and it needs a pronoun right after it: le stylo avec lequel j'écris (the pen with which I write), l'amie avec qui je suis partie (the friend with whom I left), la raison pour laquelle je suis ici (the reason for which I am here). English has the same structure in formal writing (with which, for whom), so if you mentally rewrite the English into that formal version first, the French falls into place. This lesson gives you the pronouns for that slot: lequel and its forms for things, qui for people, and où for places and moments in time. It is the grammar behind descriptions like the road we went through, the day we left, the town where it all started.
| Singular | Plural | |
|---|---|---|
| Masculine | lequel: le stylo avec lequel j'écris (the pen I write with) | lesquels: les outils sans lesquels on ne peut rien faire (the tools without which you can't do anything) |
| Feminine | laquelle: la raison pour laquelle je suis venu (the reason I came) | lesquelles: les tables sur lesquelles on a mangé (the tables we ate on) |
People: qui after a preposition
For a person, French normally uses qui after the preposition: la fille avec qui je travaille (the girl I work with), le voisin à qui j'ai prêté ma tondeuse (the neighbour I lent my lawnmower to), les gens pour qui on organise la collecte (the people we're organising the fundraiser for). A form of lequel is also correct for people (la fille avec laquelle je travaille), but it sounds more formal. For things, qui is not possible after a preposition: la table sur qui is wrong; say la table sur laquelle. One notable exception for people: after parmi (among), and usually after entre (between), French uses lesquels / lesquelles, not qui: les candidats parmi lesquels il faut choisir (the candidates among whom we must choose).
- le collègue avec qui je covoiture — the co-worker I carpool with
- l'amie chez qui j'ai dormi — the friend whose place I slept at
- la personne à qui tu as écrit — the person you wrote to
- la voiture dans laquelle on a fait le trajet — the car we made the trip in
- le projet pour lequel j'ai reçu une bourse — the project I received a scholarship for
- les boîtes dans lesquelles on a mis les livres — the boxes we put the books in
À and de glue onto lequel
| Preposition | Masc. sing. | Fem. sing. | Masc. plural | Fem. plural | Example |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| à | auquel | à laquelle | auxquels | auxquelles | le concours auquel j'ai participé (the contest I took part in) |
| de (in compound prepositions) | duquel | de laquelle | desquels | desquelles | le parc près duquel j'habite (the park I live near) |
Où: for places and for moments
Où is the relative pronoun for a place (la ville où je suis né, the city where I was born) and, surprisingly for English speakers, for a time: le jour où nous sommes partis (the day we left), l'année où j'ai commencé le secondaire (the year I started high school), au moment où le téléphone a sonné (at the moment the phone rang). English says when or nothing at all, but French does not use quand here: le jour quand is a classic anglophone error. For a place, où can also replace dans lequel or sur lequel: la maison où j'habite = la maison dans laquelle j'habite. And d'où means from where: le village d'où vient ma grand-mère (the village my grandmother comes from).
- Léa : Tu te rappelles le jour où nous sommes partis et où il neigeait ? — Do you remember the day we left and it was snowing?
- Samir : Ah oui, c'est un voyage dont je me souviendrai toute ma vie ! — Oh yes, it's a trip I'll remember my whole life!
- Léa : La route par laquelle on était passés était bloquée par la neige. — The road we had taken was blocked by snow.
- Samir : Et le motel dans lequel on a dormi n'avait pas de chauffage ! — And the motel we slept in had no heating!
- Léa : On a dû attendre que le chasse-neige arrive, ce qui a pris plus d'une demi-journée. — We had to wait for the snowplough to arrive, which took more than half a day.
- Samir : C'est l'hiver pendant lequel j'ai appris la patience. — That's the winter I learned patience.